As A Child, I Refused To Acknowledge That Ache

Bollywood actor Aamir Khan was beforehand married to movie producer Reena Dutta, and collectively they’ve two youngsters, Ira Khan and Junaid Khan. The couple, who obtained married in 1986, separated in 2002 after 16 years of marriage. In a latest interview, their daughter Ira, who’s now the founder and CEO of a psychological well being assist group, opened up about her dad and mom’ divorce. She mirrored on how she processed her feelings throughout that point and shared how, regardless of their separation, Aamir and Reena all the time remained united when it got here to their youngsters. Ira additionally talked about that her dad and mom made certain to protect them from any conflicts. Ira recalled, “They (Aamir and Reena) by no means fought round us and all the time offered a united entrance, and the households liked one another all through the entire thing. I used to be like, no, this divorce can’t be one thing that affects me in a unfavourable method,” in a dialog with Pinkvilla.

Ira Khan continued to clarify that Aamir Khan and Reena Dutta’s divorce was not a “one-day factor, and it was one thing that then modified their lives.” She shared, “I grew up, and I realised that one thing broke a relationship ended proper. Possibly it ended for the higher, however nonetheless, one thing obtained ended proper. So, there’s a specific amount of ache that comes with something breaking something ending which I refuse to have a look at consciously as a child,” including, “Even when it ended for the higher, there’s a certain quantity of ache that comes with something breaking. As a child, I refused to acknowledge that ache.”

Ira Khan then admitted that her dad and mom might need dealt with the state of affairs effectively, which led her to grasp that there was no level in blaming anybody for the divorce. She acknowledged, “I’ve since mentioned this with my therapist, and I’ve discovered that whereas there isn’t any have to blame anybody, it is necessary to acknowledge what occurred,” whereas explaining the influence of her dad and mom’ separation on her. 

Regardless of parting methods, Aamir Khan and Reena Dutta made certain to do all the things of their energy to make their children really feel “secure” and “safe.” Crediting their efforts, Ira Khan shared, “My dad and mom did an ideal job in making us really feel secure and safe that despite the fact that they’re separating, we are going to nonetheless be liked equally and the household will nonetheless be a household um in order that they managed very effectively.”

Ira Khan shares an in depth bond with each her dad and mom, Aamir Khan and Reena Dutta. At her wedding ceremony in January 2024 to health coach Nupur Shikhare, each Aamir and Reena had been current to mark the event. Aamir’s second spouse, director Kiran Rao, was additionally a part of the marriage festivities. Aamir and Kiran, who married in 2005, separated in 2021. They proceed to co-parent their son, Azad.